How to choose a crystal dildo


In order to have the most pleasurable experience when making love to yourself, it is important to pick the right toy which works for YOU and your body.

After a year of supporting our customers with choosing the best pleasure toy for them, we have compiled a list of most common questions/needs.

Check the following scenarios and see if any of them resonate with you. If you are still unsure which toy to get, DM us on Instagram or email us directly. We are happy to help!

1. G-SPOT LOVIN’

You already enjoy penetrative sex and looking to explore internal G-spot orgasms. You’ve had a few internal orgasms in your life and would like to open your body further to experiencing them.

CHOOSE: PEARL toy 

 

It can be difficult to stimulate a G-spot with just a finger or a penis. The G-spot responds to very firm consistent stimulation. Curved toys made from hard material are the best for G-spot loving. You can easily reach and stimulate the G-spot without tiring your hands while laying back.

PEARL toy, with a bulb on one end which adds firm pressure, is perfectly shaped for effortless G-spot orgasmic release. Pearl allows for easy handling and angling when playing solo or with a partner.
READ THIS BOOK - ‘Female Ejaculation & The G-spot’ by Deborah Sundahl

 

2. SQUIRTING

Read our Beginner's Guide to Squirting

You are already orgasming internally and wish to explore your vaginal pleasure further by practicing squirting & cervical orgasms. You are ready to go deeper!

CHOOSE: WAVE toy

Deeper pleasure such as squirting is all about complete mind/body relaxation and consistent firm movement technique. The perfect squirting toy must be from a hard material and extra angled for easy handling and pressing into the G-spot. The more the toy is curved, the better.

WAVE is the most curved in our collection which means less energy wasted on hand movements. Even micro movements send waves of pleasure from the G-spot across the body.
CHECK THIS OUT - Our yoni massage course has video tutorials and techniques on squirting & cervical pleasure!!!

 

3. NEWBIE

You only masturbate by touching the clitoris, often with a vibrator. You’d love to explore internal vaginal pleasure. You feel lost when it comes to non-vibrating toys - what to do with them and how to receive pleasure from them.

 CHOOSE: PEARL or CURVE toys



If you are new to the world of non-vibrating toys and penetration pleasure then PEARL or CURVE are your best choices.

Pick  PEARL if you already enjoy the feeling of penetration and explore your G-spot with its bulbous end.

Choose CURVE if you are still uncomfortable with penetration. CURVE is the skinniest of our toys and perfect for beginner’s explorations.
Read more about yoni self-massage  and our online course with lots of tasteful video tutorials on how to touch yourself for pleasure.

 

4. FULFILLED

You enjoy a feeling of being “full” during penetration. Skinny toys nor fingers do not work for you. You want to feel fulfilled with something thick and juicy!

CHOOSE: WAVE toy

Our WAVE is the Marylin Monroe of our pleasure toys. The WAVE is the thickest of all our toys, perfect for individuals who enjoy a full penetration experience.

You can use both ends of the WAVE depending on your mood. The skinnier end is crafted for G-spot stimulation. The thicker end is designed for juicy penetration experience. Just sliding the thick end inside of yourself and feeling the yoni hug around it while you stimulate the clitoris is very pleasurable!
Read this book - ‘Orgasm Unleashed’ by Eyal Matsliah

 

 5. PARTNER PLAY

You are looking for a toy to integrate into lovemaking with your partner. Something you will both enjoy.

CHOOSE: PEARL toy

Our PEARL is our favourite couple’s toy regardless of sexual orientation. PEARL is perfect toy for G-spot stimulation. Extra curved, PEARL is easy to hold while pleasuring your partner. Even men enjoy it as a prostate massager!

 

6. ANAL PLAY

You are curious about anal sex and looking for a toy to practice with.

CHOOSE: CURVE toy

Have you read our famous guide to anal sex?

CURVE is our skinniest toy, perfect for anal pleasure beginners. CURVE is polished to a smooth finish so it glides effortlessly in & out without creating any skin friction the way a finger or a silicone toy might. CURVE is easy to hold while pleasuring your partner or yourself.

If your man is quite experienced with his prostate then you can upgrade to PEARL toy as it is a bit thicker.


7. SEXY GIFT

 You are looking for a sexy gift for a lover but not sure what to get them. Sex toys are very personal so how does one choose?
CHOOSE: Onna GIFT CARD

Choosing a pleasure toy for a loved one can be quite personal unless you know them well.
Give your loved one the gift of choice with a ONNA gift card.

Gift cards are delivered by email and contain instructions to redeem them at checkout. This way your loved one will get to choose exactly what they want!

 

8. BUDGET

 You love all Onna gemstone toys and currently on a tight budget. You wish to invest only in best quality toys.
CHOOSE: sign up for discounts!

SIGN up to our PLEASURE MONDAYS newsletter where we share weekly friendly discounts with you!

We design, manufacture and promote only THE BEST QUALITY pleasure toys which are free from toxic glue, chemical-free and will last you for many years of pleasure.

Our gemstone toys are certified by an EU Gemology Institute!

Top quality materials cost money. Gemstones are a luxury. Treat expensive toys as a long-term pleasure investment.

 

9. YONI LOVE

You experience mild vaginal discomfort during penetration. Penetrative sex isn’t painful for you but it is not pleasurable either. You feel numb and disconnected. You can’t find your G-spot.


CHOOSE: CURVE toy

Have you read the benefits of yoni massage?

Many women experience tension in the vagina if they are penetrated before they are fully aroused and open. Unwanted, unskilled, un-arousing sex can lead to discomfort and friction in the vagina. Tensed muscles are the body’s coping mechanism against sexual stress.

In order to experience pleasure, the yoni must be treated with unconditional love and care. Sensual self-massage, slow masturbation and gentle penetration are all part of sexual self-care of any woman.

CURVE toy non-phallic design is intentional, nurturing an intimate feminine relationship with your body. The thinner end of the toy is crafted for internal yoni massage to relieve muscle tension. The thicker end of the toy is perfect for G-spot exploration and massage.

We DO strongly suggest to see a pelvic floor or gynaecologist professional for a proper diagnosis. Please consult with a physician before attempting any self-healing.

 

10. YONI MASSAGE

 You are looking for the best tool for yoni self-massage and yoni mapping.

CHOOSE: CURVE toy


Read our yoni mapping instructions here and check out our online video course with techniques for self-massage and yoni healing.

CURVE is created specially for intimate massage, yoni mapping and self-pleasure for beginners. CURVE’s non-phallic design is intentional.

The thinner end of the CURVE is crafted for internal massage to relieve muscle tension. The thicker end of the toy is perfect for G-spot exploration and penetration.

We DO strongly suggest to see a pelvic floor or gynaecologist professional for a proper diagnosis. Please consult with a physician before attempting any self-healing.


11. YONI HEALING

You experience strong pain during any penetration whether from a lover or on your own. You have a hard time feeling aroused or lubricated. You feel disconnected from your body and stressed.

CHOOSE: get tested & properly diagnosed

If you experience pain during penetration, we strongly suggest that before investing in a toy, you see a few gynaecologist/pelvic floor specialists who can properly diagnose you.

Sometimes the pain in the vagina is not just from tensed muscles. You could have a sexually transmitted infection, endometriosis, UTI or dealing with pain due to PTSD. Self-diagnosing and self-healing can be dangerous. The first steps of healing are always a proper medical diagnosis.

 

12. MALE PLEASURE

You heard that the male G-spot lives inside the man’s anus. You are looking for a gift for your man to explore it together without freaking him out.

CHOOSE: RAVEN CURVE toy

Have you read our famous guide to anal sex?

CURVE is our skinniest toy, perfect for anal pleasure beginners. CURVE is polished to a smooth finish so it glides effortlessly in & out without creating any skin friction the way a finger or a silicone toy might. It is angled and easy to hold while pleasuring your partner or yourself.

 

13. BODY MASSAGE

You love giving and receiving massages whether sensual or deep tissue. You just love any type of bodywork.

CHOOSE: POINT toy

The main purpose of POINT is to release deep tissue tension throughout the body. POINTS are great for trigger point therapy, deep tissue massage, body de-armouring, sports massage as well as erotic partner massage. They are the perfect tool for applying deep pleasurable pressure to the muscles without straining yourself.

If you love gifting massages but get tired, POINT is for you!

 



We hope this was a helpful guide!


If you are still unsure which toy to pick, DM us or email us! We are happy to help!

Always in the Mood for Love,

Elena & Adela

 


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About the authors:

Elena and Adela are the founders of Onna Lifestyle and self-proclaimed Pleasure Cheerleaders. They believe that healthy sexuality and sexual self-care are important components of health and overall wellbeing. Their intention is to introduce more beauty and conscious pleasure into every woman's life. Follow them on @onna_lifestyle.


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