QUESTIONS FOR MEN PART I: WHAT MAKES THE BEST BLOWJOB?

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WHAT MAKES THE BEST BLOWJOB?

This was one of the 20 questions we asked men who volunteered to honestly and openly share their thoughts about sex, love, pleasure, fantasies, and desires.


 

Read their answers below!


"Really slow, and wet. I don't really like deepthroat as i get a bad feeling thinking it is not comfortable for her."

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"When it's her idea and she starts off very slowly, tip of the tongue stuff, with lots of teasing. She then hands me her phone with a video that she wants me to watch while she gets more into it. And if she swallows and then keeps going until it hurts and I have to try pull her head away, well, that's a 10/10."

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"An initiated blowjob was a long time ago. Something done for me that she enjoys and that I can tell she gets turned on from. It does not have t be any other way. To feel she likes it and wants to do it."

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"I like it when it includes a bunch of different techniques... Focusing on the head, deep throating and wanking me off at the same time."

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"I love having blowjobs. The most important is to control the cum. She should play or make love to my cock. Keep it close to cum but not let me cum and keep it at the level of one step down of final pleasure."

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"For me, when I dont expect it. When she pushes me down and climbs on top, going slowly and tasting all of me. Gentle kisses on the head, Good pressure. Using hands while she does it. Making me twitch with pleasure, pushing me down, and some perineum play too."

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"Enthusiasm. The idea that someone genuinely wants to is really hot. Not just willingness, but really getting into it and enjoying it. "

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"Not just concentrating on the typical up and down, in-the-mouth action that seems to be so prevalent. I love it when a woman takes her time, teases me, and explores every inch. Licking my cock like an ice cream cone, up and down the shaft, swirling the head, sucking my balls, licking my perineum, tongue in my ass… there's nothing like it! For me, variety is key. Change it up. Use your hands. Integrate your hands with your mouth action. But most of all, she has to enjoy it. If a woman is not enjoying it, I can tell, and I cannot enjoy it. I wouldn't want to put anyone in that position. It's definitely a skill that needs to be learned, but I think many women are afraid of learning what their man wants. Don't be afraid! Ask, and we will tell you! "

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"When my lingam is worshipped slowly, deliberately, felt and enjoyed fully by the giver, and I can feel and see that she is truly enjoying herself and what she is giving me and how she is playing with my energy. "

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"Soft, gentle, warm touches to start. Then her warm breath on my cock and balls. Almost tickling me with her breathing and teasing me. Lots of passionate eye contact and fitting both my entire cock and balls in her mouth. Lots of good tongue movement focusing on the tip. Her soft hair grazing my skin. One hand gently stroking my butt or thigh. Finally, swallowing!"

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"Enthusiasm and a genuine desire to do it on their part. Swallowing is a plus as well. I guess it goes back to the enthusiasm part."

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"Lying on my back, propped up on a pillow so I can have a perfect view, her sitting crouched between my legs, I can see her behind in a mirror, I'm gently playing with her hair, letting her treat my dick as the best icecream in the world, licking the underside, licking my testicles, scraping my anus and gently inserting one finger while sucking my dick and stroking my balls, gently edging me by licking the frenulum. If she also uses some dildo on herself, I'm in heaven. "

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"I'm extremely sensitive downstairs. I'd say for me, the best things are not asking for it. When someone wants to do it to make you feel good is the most important thing. Also, tenderness, gentleness, and have fun, watch it throb and cum, do it your way. I want to feel you and how you do me. I don't want to guide. If it hurts or I don't like it, I'll redirect. I've never had my prostate milked or very much ball play, but I do like some tongue action on the taint and to see your eyes. "

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"Teasing, taking your time. Light licks and focus on the head at first - there's so much pleasure there. Touch my balls while giving me head. Touch as much of me as possible while you're giving me head. If I am standing, please grab my buns and pull me in. Alternate between light licks and teasing and deep sucking. Talk to me in playful ways - "Oh, he likes that." "I better finish what I started here.". When you are ready to make me explode, switch to just deep sucking, and honestly - I love being able to cum in my lover's mouth. It's super hot to me. Like you are taking my soul. Lol. "

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"Feeling and knowing that she is enjoying it and only continuing for as long as she is enjoying it. Gentleness & slowness. It really helps for me to hear every so often that she is loving doing so. Being touched or held around my cock as well as her mouth, is mindblowing. There is a tenderness to it that feels very loving. "

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"Blowjobs are difficult for me. I have trouble coming with blowjobs, so they do not happen frequently. I get some caught up in the moment that I just cannot focus well enough. It is something I think we would both probably like more of, but we have not made it a large part of our sexual lives."

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Massaging the balls.

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Eye contact and enthusiasm.

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"I love when a woman will pull my cock and balls out and sniff me, tell me how good my man smell is (have been told it's actually really nice), and love a woman who loves balls as much as cock! Especially when a woman gets wet from giving a blowjob."

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I think that when she licks the top of my penis or the balls.

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Slow and steady wins the race and then from mild to wild  just putting my hand behind her head.

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When it's obvious that she loves doing it, I could never enjoy it purely as a service.

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Teasing, licking, taking time and not trying to rush to the finish. Taking control.

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The best blowjob is a slow one. Very sensual. Her warm mouth over it. Feeling the tongue over the top. For me it's better than penetration.

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Take the above answers as an inspiration but keep in mind that everyone's different and likes and dislikes different things. The key to great sex (and a great blowjob) lies in honest communication, curiosity, and asking your partner for genuine feedback.

You will always want to adjust and customize oral sex based on your partner's preferences. Not all people like the same things, and not two penises are the same with exactly the same hot spots. That being said, we compiled some basic guidelines that lay the groundwork for amazing oral sex, regardless of what these preferences are in our ULTIMATE BLOWJOB GUIDE.

Treat this guide like you would treat a recipe book. You do not need to use every single tip, technique, and position. Play with the suggestions and be flexible. Watch your partner's reactions to see what works and what doesn't.

 blowjob guide

BLOW YOUR PARTNER'S MIND AND GIVE HIM THE BEST ORAL EXPERIENCE OF HIS LIFE

OUR ULTIMATE BLOWJOB GUIDE INCLUDES:

  • Detailed anatomy of the male penis pleasure spots.
  • Easy to understand anatomy illustrations of the penis.
  • Detailed, step-by-step instructions on how to give a blow job on a penis.
  • Pro techniques designed to give your partner maximum pleasure.
  • Extra tips for driving your partner wild.
  • Answers to common questions like, "Do I have to swallow?"
  • Honest answers from men about the best blowjobs they ever had.

 

INCLUDES TWO BONUS GUIDES:

ONNA RIMMING GUIDE

PROSTATE MASSAGE GUIDE

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