What he wants to hear in the bedroom
Verbal communication is undeniably paramount in the bedroom, regardless of gender. Expressions of desire, affirmation, and appreciation have a profound impact on arousal and satisfaction levels for all individuals.
Scientifically, vocal affirmations of attractiveness and desirability trigger a complex interplay of neurochemical responses, including heightened production of dopamine, oxytocin, and testosterone. These neurotransmitters are intricately linked to pleasure, bonding, and increased arousal, thus enriching the sexual experience. Furthermore, fostering clear and open communication about desires, boundaries, and consent cultivates an atmosphere of trust and intimacy, fostering deeper connection and mutual understanding between partners.
However, it's important to acknowledge that preferences vary widely among individuals. While one person may find arousal in compliments about physical attributes, another may crave verbal expressions of emotional connection. To shed light on this diversity, we've reached out to our male followers to share the sexiest phrases they've heard in the bedroom, reflecting the nuanced desires and preferences within intimate relationships.
Read what the men shared below:
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"Now. Fuck me here and now! I want you." (does not have to be in bed, but initiating with that...yes!)."
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Tie me up.
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"Honestly I've loved it when lovers have had to swear or say "OH MY GOD!" because I'm making them cum and feel good. But I also love "I want you inside me right now." as well. "
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I'm yours.
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"I‘ve never felt this before."
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"Well one of the sexiest things I’ve been told is “your easy to love” and the person who said it turns me on so much and means so much that just knowing her love comes effortlessly melts my heart. But I love it when some just says “I want you to fuck me” "
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"I like hearing my name and her moans. "
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"I am exhausted. (I assume this is my ego) :)"
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" I love you. Im kinda old fashioned corny but that gets me going. Its making love to me. But i did have self conscious issues with my size for a long time, until girls i was with actually, actually told me i was big. When i heard it, i became more confident. Which i know sounds stupid but im a grower and im not suave so i dont carry it like im big. But after ive heard it from a few girls its helped me so much. So if they say anything like that during, because i had trauma for so long about it, even contemplating suicide during high school, it releases so much and i just flourish more. Im ashamed im so attached to that idea but i am. "
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"Keep going like that, don't stop"
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"“I want to make this all about you.” I am always so focused on and concerned about making sure sex is enjoyable for my partner, so if she were to say she wanted it to be all about me, that would be very sexy because it’s usually all about her. "
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" the best compliment is a happy customer and a return customer (i think I'm in love) "
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"I love how you fill up every inch and how you make me come again and again. I never get enough of you."
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"This is a hard one. Although basically any words or talking that lets me know how it makes them feel. Directions and making it known that it feels good are hot."
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"Don't stop"
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